Pizza King's Opus Dei-Favored " non-swinging ", " non-dating " Singles Service
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Fri Jun 02, 2006 at 12:08:04 PM EST
"I had been seeking to find a way to bring serious single Catholics together for a long time. Contributing to the growth of Ave Maria Singles through the Ave Maria Foundation was my opportunity to do that. I look forward to seeing it grow in great numbers all around the world with many marriages, children and holy Catholic families established." - Tom Monaghan, Founder of Domino's Pizza

"Ave maria Singles"  isn't an 'official' Opus Dei Catholic Singles site, but take a look at who the site lists in it's "Prominent Catholics Appreciate the Ave Maria Singles Website!" page - one of Opus Dei's top leaders in the US [ see article by Frank Cocozzelli ] , Rev. C. John McCloskey, enthusiastically plugs the new service:

"This service is providing an ideal setting for serious Catholics to search for... and find their spouse for life. Together with their children they will build 'the civilization of love and truth' in the next millennium."

Attached to McCloskey's endorsement we find :"He [ McCloskey ] has personally advised many of his spiritual directees to join. (6) have met their spouse here."In other words, McCloskey's recommendation could be characterized as : "Top US OPus Dei Leader Recommends New Singles Service". Fair enough.

So who is the Rev. John McCloskey ? Well, Talk To Action contributor Frank Cocozzelli, in The Catholic Right Part Three: Rev. John McCloskey, the Face of an Opus Dei Agenda., provides some background:

A review of some of Rev. McCloskey's statements reflects a very reactionary view of the world. In a book review of one of his converts, CNBC supply-side economic analyst Lawrence Kudlow, McCloskey simplistically divided all Americans as "...two Americas. One group in America is made up of Bible Christians and faithful Catholics who possess standards and convictions based on the natural law, the Bible, and the teaching authority of the Catholic Church and strive to live accordingly." Then, in language reminiscent of Inquisitors past, he characterized "The other group in America, whatever its religious affiliation" as not believing "... in a normative moral truth or in a God to whom they are accountable in this life and in the next according to their actions here," ultimately describing them as "...culture of death."

This is a very troubling statement from a man who is often a panelist on many reputable television political roundtables and who maintains power within the Church. He was until recently the director of the Opus Dei-run the Catholic Information Center of Washington, D. C.

Back to "Ave Maria Singles" - the service's website states:

It is the goal of Ave Maria Singles to be an instrument of Jesus Christ used to bring hope to single Catholics who are serious about their faith, loyal to the Pope and Magisterium, and seek to meet their future spouse who shares their convictions.

We have had over 200 [ note : the current total is up to 481 ] successful marriages thus far, a powerful testimony to God's power at work through this site as an instrument of His Holy Spirit.

Now, there is much to mock in religion - mainly hypocritical behavior of religious leaders - but Monaghan's new service does an admirable job of presenting a minimal target to those given to taking pot shots at faith. I haven't read all of the dozens and dozens of written testimonials listed on the site, but as far as I can tell you won't find any hint of salacious material in the hundreds of rather lengthy firsthand testimonials on "AveMaria Singles" although if you find long, earnest, narratives involving long distance courtship via letters and email, occasional family chaperoned meetings involving mutual prayer side by side in church, and happy vignettes of marriage proposals amidst festooned rose petals somehow titillating, well this is for you. "Ave Maria Singles" couples seem not to date at all, and they most certainly do not "swing" - before tying the knot at any rate : they court. Indeed, the quirkiest thing about the site is the fact that it showcases so many  testimonials that the list takes a while to download even with a high speed internet connection - an avalanche of beaming, normative couples sailing into nuptial bliss.

Although it is hard to say, I'd say that many of the members of the service ( over 10,000 ) are probably not Opus Dei members and that Dei is simply exerting a diffuse ideological influence over members of this singles flock ( maybe there's more - stay tuned ).

This new service is not noteworthy for its quirkiness but for its demurely modest, polished mainstream gloss. Ideology, as always, of course does skulk in the background, given that many accuse Opus Dei of being a cult ( see Talk To Action writer rank Coccozzeli's series on the Catholic Right and Opus Dei. It is certainly worth pointing out that Dominos Pizza baron Monaghan bankrolls a whole portfolio of projects aimed at reshaping American society and Catholicism per his particular beliefs - indeed, he is financing the development of an entire ultra orthodox Catholic mid-sized town in Florida ( link : story by Media Matters ) that will be hermeticaly sealed against smut, porn, birth control, and other allegedy pernicious cultural influences. Monaghan also funds the development of two Catholic Law Centers, a university,  a Catholic unversity, a Catholic radio station, an investment fund, and   also is alleged to be associated with a Catholic authoritarian "shepherding" cult called the "Word of God" ( see Tom Monaghan's Pizza Pilgrimage, by Jeff Huber and Jerry Soucy, from  ePluribus Media )

But at the moment, I'm here not to criticize Monaghan at all but to - sort of -  praise his strategic vision

Tom Monaghan is committed to building institutions will advance his ideology and that is notable

Monaghan puts his money where his mouth is, and there most certainly is an agenda to his new "Ave Maria Singles" project : it concerns the concentration of ideological traits. Ave Maria couples of like mind will marry and raise families - and their offspring will carry the shared ideology forward. It is a sort of ideological inbreeding designed to  preserve and concentrat desired traits. What might an analogue of this, from the left, look like ? Imagine a "progressive dating service" which required its members to sign a declaration that they supported abortion rights, access to contraception, and same sex marriage.

So, is ideological inbreeding bad ? Well, yes and no depending on one's perspective but in this case Monaghan is encouraging the concentration Opus Dei - friendly religious ideology -  lest that ideological stock get watered down as Catholics pair off with athiests or even dreaded Unitarians.

But here's my main point: Monaghan has his beliefs. He puts money behind them. There's one thing the religious and Christian right most certainly get : they support their own.




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Keeps these people away from them.

Seriously, this makes a local NYC pizza sound all the more delicious!

by GreenEyed Lilo on Fri Jun 02, 2006 at 12:16:58 PM EST

As a Brooklyn-born, NYC Italian-Catholic, I neither approve of Tom Monaghan's cardboard pizza nor his authoitarian-tinged concept of my religion.

by Frank Cocozzelli on Fri Jun 02, 2006 at 05:33:58 PM EST
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I'm not a Brooklyn native, only a resident, but... Hear hear! Even in Florida, I could tell the difference!

by GreenEyed Lilo on Sat Jun 03, 2006 at 10:38:46 AM EST
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This article on the founder of Domino's Pizza is the latest in a series of extremely depressing entries here which detail the efforts of conservative mega-millionaires to fund, and fund very generously, the Religious Right.

Is there any hope for the other side?  I continue to believe in the power of inspired mass movements to advance the cause of social justice.  However, social conservatives are a mass movement too, and they have the immense advantage that is provided by organized, on-going programs to publicize their views and train and equip their operatives.  Those programs cost money, and the Religious Right has it.

I, and I assume many of those of like mind, contribute what we can to support the causes we believe in, but I and all of my friends put together can contribute only a small fraction of the money that a single individual like Mr. McCloskey can.

While abandoning neither my belief in the power of numerous "average" people acting together nor my appreciation of the value of grassroots organizing (which usually takes money too), I think we should begin to take our own "follow the money" approach -- more accurately a "find the money" approach -- to see what can be done to counter the financial advantage of the Religious Right.

This program will face at least two serious obstacles.

One is the fact that there are probably more wealthy people of conservative views than wealthy people of progressive views.  However, this obstacle is not huge.  There certainly are a number of wealthy people who support compassionate, tolerant, pluralistic democracy.  (I live in Silicon Valley, and I suspect that at least some of the relatively young, not-traditionally-corporate "Internet Millionaires" here would fall into that category.)  What, if anything, is being done to engage these people?  What, if anything, can I do to help?

The second, and perhaps more formidable obstancle, is the fact that the universe of compelling progressive causes includes more than just "political issue" causes.  (There has to be a better term for this, but I can't come up with one right now.  What I mean is something similar, but not identical, to what my church calls the "advocacy" prong of social justice work.)  In other words, progressives want to do more than pass laws and elect candidates that will conform to their views.  They want to help real people, right now.

That means giving money to organizations that do what my church calls the "service" prong of social justice work -- organizations that feed the hungry, conduct medical research, provide resources for public education, maintain libraries, museums, and aquariums, buy land to preserve open spaces, etc., etc.  Because social conservatives care less about problems like these, they have more money to devote to the "political issue" causes.

Suppose the answer to my question, "What, if anything, can I do to help?", is "Contact some of those local "Internet Millionaires" you mentioned and ask for their financial support" (and you could give me a clue as to how I could possibly do that).  What if one said, "I have lots of money, but it's not unlimited, and I can only give so much to charitable causes.  I was planning to give $500,000 this year to our local food bank.  Should I give it to your cause instead and let the poor in our community go hungry?"  What would I say?  (And, on a vastly smaller scale, this is the dilemna progressives face in their personal financial planning every day.  I know that every dollar I give to an advocacy group is a dollar that is not buying food for some hungry person, not buying school supplies for some needly child.)

So again, what can be done?

by Theovanna on Mon Jun 05, 2006 at 06:36:15 PM EST


If they are interested in these things then they should try their luck with the cuckold sites. They will be able to find so many different people who have the same interests.


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